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*Fashionably Late: Why You’re Not Too Old for Motherhood*
What people are saying:
“What a great read! Fun and Witty! Completely relatable for us 40+ Gals. This book is full of information and interesting facts on the topic. If I had had this “how to” book a few years back I may have changed my direction. No kids yet, but now… who knows ?” -Leslie S.
“…good information for any stage of motherhood. As a single mother, not by choice, and one who had a child at 38 I found this book so enjoyable. I have recommended it to some of my patients.” -Lynda K.
“I loved this book! It was inspiring, funny, witty and full of encouraging wisdom when we happen to decide later in life to start having a family. All the questions, concerns and things we wonder but have no idea where to start.” -GG
“Enjoyed the book tremendously. Holly Duke’s style is wickedly funny – however simultaneously backed by hard facts. She describes her own path to motherhood and how she navigates through society’s warnings against decisions to become a parent after 40. She offers a new view – clearly addresses all concerns, doesn’t just swipe them away, but backs them with substantial research. It’s an easy and quick read and jam-packed with useful information. If you’ve had concerns, rest assured, Ms Duke addresses them in her book with the seriousness and humor they deserve.” – Christine H.
“Duke approaches motherhood with candor, humor, and a fresh dose of reality… Duke’s nonjudgmental perspective will serve as an excellent resource for women considering or already invested in motherhood as “older” moms.” – Katie A.
Hello Friend!
Have you ever heard “it’s gonna be too hard on your body,” or “are you sure you’ll have enough energy for this?” Or maybe “what about your career,” or “aren’t you scared of the health risks?” Or worst of all, “Aren’t you afraid people will think you’re his grandmother?”And if you haven’t heard them from someone else, you’ve probably had these thoughts yourself.
I’ve read so much about the downsides and dangers of childbirth in the late 30’s and 40’s (aka “advanced maternal age”). Many articles go so far as to say don’t do it. What a shame that the most prevalent information and opinions out there come from such a pessimistic place. Yes – we should be aware of the risks, but come on. People have been giving birth in their 40’s for literally hundreds of years. It was only in the last few decades that it became “dangerous.” Of the approximately 4 million babies born every year in the US, about half a million of them are to women over 35. About 110,000 to women over 40. Feel better?
Women who adopt or use surrogates at our age are just as heavily impacted by the stigma of so-called old parents, perpetuating their self-doubts. And they also fear the very same thing. That we’ll be too tired for this or we’ll die early.
But the thing is… For us, later is better.
My name is Holly. I started a whole new life – motherhood and family – at 43.
I want to share my experiences and tools, and I want to highlight topics and areas of interest for all of us. If there’s anything you want to hear or talk about, reach out to me. I’d love to hear from you~